PEOPLE PLEASING to PLEASING YOURSELF
As gentle hearts, our energy and emotions are often more tuned in to pleasing others, and keeping other people comfortable, then pleasing ourselves.
For many years I put others needs and emotions before myself - not even realising that I could put myself in the picture.
Do you relate?
In Business: I used to over accommodate my clients, try and create offerings in my business that would keep 'everyone happy' ....except for me!
This is nothing to be ashamed of, as it is endemic amongst heart-centered women.
On the face of it, people-pleasing appears noble, but energetically it can leave us burn out, exhausted, angry and wondering why everyone else is happy apart from us!
People pleasing may happens when we are:
This is the work that I do with clients to help them to feel fully supported in gently returning back to their own hearts .
I want you to know that it is okay, and actually vital, to please yourself first, even when it feels deeply uncomfortable, and confronting.
Love to hear your thoughts about this....