 Anne-Marie was the eldest of five children and was the ‘care-taker’. Her parents were kind and loving, but one of her parents could be quite manipulative, and play the victim card in order to get there needs met.
Over the years, Anne-marie naturally slipped in to the role of the care-taker, fixer and rescuer in her relationships. Within her marriage she was the one who ‘took care of everything’. Like many of my clients she was also in a position of responsibility with her work. She was great at solving problems, sorting things out, and being highly intuitive she was also able to discern what people required - often before they even knew that they did. What happens to a lot of my clients is that after years of taking care, rescuing, and care-taking they begin to get resentful. The background song to this chapter could be “What about me?” And rightly so! You count, and you are worthy of being looked after, just like everybody else. My client was resistant to inner child work. She held firmly to the belief that her childhood had been great and she had nothing to complain about. Whilst her childhood, like yours, may have been great on many levels, it is a classic Empath thing to minimise your own experiences, and maximises everybody elses pain. My client believed that she had been treated fairly as a child. As we gently gazed in, it became clear to her that she had in fact been treated like an adult, been given huge responsibilities of looking after her siblings and taking on adult-like tasks, and was not allowed to be a child and just have fun. Fun - yes people FUN! Updating her boundaries was a big part of this work as energetically she was becoming depleted, resentful and burnt out. Where does this resonate for you? If you would like to book a complimentary 20 minute session to feel in to working together, please reach out.
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 HOW CLEARING THE PERSECUTION WOUND HELPED STELLA
When Stella came to see me, she was confused about her next steps. A highly intuitive, wise healer with a kind heart and amazing skilled at the modalities that she shared, she was struggling to move forward as she kept questioning her self, and her wisdom. She described herself as ‘weird’ and kept saying ‘I feeling like I am going mental” As I reflected back her words and her wisdom to her, it was evident that there was a theme of the fear of being seen as too weird, crazy, mental or insane. She was using a lot of her energy to ‘fit in’ and ‘appear normal’, and would often mask herself, shut down her light, and her natural gifts of intuition and healing, around people who she felt were not open to her. As I reflected back her language, and her wisdom, this was enough for her to feel in to the possibility that there was a time when she was actually locked up for being wise, intuitive, a seer and an oracle. In this life time this manifested as fear of being ‘truly seen’. In her healing business, she was standing at the precipice, but couldn’t get past this block. On top of this, as a child she had been highly criticised, so lacked an inner soothing voice of support. Because of this she had craved external validation from a partner, and because her wounding and her story was all around ‘being safe to be in her wisdom’, of course the field played back to her people in her family reflecting back this core wounding. As we tapped through the points, we worked on clearing any and all past life times where she had been locked up for being a wise oracle, as well as any fear that she was holding in her body and in her energy field. It was Intense! This is such a common theme with so many intuitives that they hold the persecution wound, as a fear of being seen in their feminine power and wisdom. Becoming conscious of these core patterns, finding the root cause, and working on clearing the trauma held in the energy field has huge effects. Working on clearing energy strands to those who had persecuted in other timelines also had a massiave ripple effect. When souls have come in with a big mission to spread their wisdom and their light, they will often have to walk the path that they will be sharing in order to become an energetic match with what they are sharing. This is an example of this, as once this vibration was cleared, her field was an energetic resonance with ‘being visible’ and she began to feel safe to be seen, and hence her work opened up. |
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