Asking for what it is that we want.....

ASKING FOR WHAT IT IS THAT WE WANT
As Intuitives sometimes we (falsely) believe that others are like us and 'just know' what we need.

• In a relationship this can mean that we just expect our partner to 'know' what we require to feel loved, seen, held and nutured.

• In friendships this can mean that we often have one-sided friendships where we give without receiving, as we know what others require more then ourselves.

With my clients and myself the ALCHEMY to this is to:

1. Increase our own self awareness so that we actually discover what it is that we need.
2. Find our wounds and blocks around asking for those things (where have we been rejected, hurt, shamed, or banished for speaking our heart)
3. Begin to unfurl our petals slowly by learning where safe places are to share our heart.
4. Stay with the feelings of vulnerabilty that arise as we ask for what it is that we need.
5. Become friends with our rejection.
6. Build a solid foundation of love within our own hearts.

There are so many levels here!
I've had clients say that without doing this work their marriages would have crumbled or soured, friendships would have become rotten or held on for far too long in the hope of repair.
I love working with 'ASKING FOR WHAT YOU NEED' because this has been huge for me in my marriage, my beautiful sacred friendships, in parenting and in my business. It's literally been life-changing.....
I'd love to hear any thoughts that come up for you as you read this.
I have space for 30 minute Complimentary Soul Sessions to feel in to working together.
Gilly X